The only concept that comes to mind when we hear the word "attraction" is sexual attraction. We keep circling back to the one form of attraction because it is the one we hear about the most. You do not have complete control over the types of attraction. Your body or mind—or both—tells you how you feel about someone, so as you come to know them more, your attraction to them may vary as well. Your mind will always have some amount of inherent sensation that categorises the type of feeling you are experiencing.